Ukudla Nothando.

Ukuziphatha kokudla kwabathandi kungahluka ngezindlela eziningi kulokho kwabantu abangashadile. Nakuba abanye abathandi bengase badle kancane ngoba bematasa kakhulu bejabulela imizwa yabo, abanye bangase badle kakhulu ngoba bezizwa bekhululekile futhi bejabule. Kule nkondlo, sizobheka ngokucophelela ukuziphatha kokudla kwabathandi futhi sizame ukuchaza ezinye zezizathu ezingaba khona zalokhu.

Esinye sezenzakalo ezivame kakhulu ezibonwe ekuziphatheni kokudla kwabathandi "ukukhushulwa kokuthandana". Lokhu kubhekisela eqinisweni lokuthi abathandi abaningi badla kakhulu ngesikhathi sezigaba zokuqala zobudlelwane babo, ngokuvamile ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Lokhu kungaba ngenxa yokuthi abathandi bazizwa bekhululekile futhi bejabule futhi ngakho-ke maningi amathuba okuthi bafulathele imikhuba yabo yokudla evamile.

Esinye isici esingathonya ukuziphatha kokudla kwabathandi yiqiniso lokuthi bazizwa bekhululekile kakhulu enkampanini yomunye nomunye. Lokhu kungabangela ukuthi badle kakhulu ngesikhathi sokudla ndawonye kunalokho ababevame ukukwenza ngokwabo. Futhi, iqiniso lokuthi abathandi bangase bachithe isikhathi esiningi ndawonye kungabasiza badle kakhulu, njengoba bethambekele kakhulu ekujabuliseni nasekujabuleleni omunye nomunye ngenkathi bedla.

Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi abathandi badle kakhulu ukucubungula imizwa yabo. Kwezinye izimo, ukucubungula imizwa kungasizwa ngokudla ukudla okuthile okubizwa ngokuthi "ukudla okududuzayo." Lokhu kungabangela ukuthi abathandi badle okungaphezu kwalokho abajwayele ukukudla lapho bezizwa becindezelekile noma benqotshiwe.

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuziphatha kokudla kwezithandani kungahluka kakhulu kumuntu nomuntu nokuthi kunezici eziningi.