Meʻakai mo e ʻOfa.

ʻE lava ke kehe ʻa e ʻulungaanga kai ʻo e ʻofa ʻi ha ngaahi founga lahi mei he kakai tautaha. Neongo ʻe siʻisiʻi ange e kai ʻa e niʻihi ʻofa koeʻuhi he ʻoku nau fuʻu femoʻuekina he ngaahi ongo ʻoku nau maʻu, ka ʻe lava ke kai lahi ange ʻa e niʻihi koeʻuhi he ʻoku nau ongoʻi fiemalie mo fiefia. ʻI he ʻesei ko ʻeni, te tau vakai ofi ange ai ki he ʻulungaanga kai ʻo e ʻofa pea feinga ke fakamatalaʻi ha niʻihi ʻo e ngaahi ʻuhinga ʻe ala hoko ai ʻeni.

Ko e taha ʻo e ngaahi meʻa fakalilifu taha ʻoku fakatokangaʻi ʻi he ʻulungaanga kai ʻo e ʻofa ko e "ivi infatuation". ʻOku ʻuhinga ʻeni ki he foʻi moʻoni ko ia ʻoku tokolahi ha ʻofa kai lahi ange lolotonga e ngaahi ʻuluaki tuʻunga ʻo honau va fetuʻutaki, ʻo ʻikai ke nau faʻa fakatokangaʻi. Mahalo ʻe tupu ʻeni mei he foʻi moʻoni ko ia ʻoku ʻofa ongoʻi fiemalie mo fiefia pea ʻoku ngalingali te nau tafoki mei heʻenau toʻonga kai angamaheni.

Ko e meʻa ʻe taha te ne lava ʻo takiekina ʻa e ʻulungaanga kai ʻo e ʻofa ko e foʻi moʻoni ko ia ʻoku nau ongoʻi fiemalie ange ʻi heʻenau feohi. ʻE lava ke fakatupu heni haʻanau kai lahi ange lolotonga e maʻu meʻatokoni fakataha ʻi he meʻa angamaheni ʻoku nau angamaheni ke fai ʻiate kinautolu pe. ʻIkai ngata ai, ʻe lava ke tokoniʻi kinautolu ʻe he foʻi moʻoni ko ia ʻofa ke fakamoleki ha taimi lahi ange ke nau kai lahi ange, ʻi heʻenau fakahehema lahi ange ke fakafiefiaʻi mo fiefia ʻiate kinautolu lolotonga ʻenau kai.

ʻOku toe malava foki ke ʻofa ke kai lahi ange ke ngaue ki heʻenau ngaahi ongo. ʻI he ngaahi meʻa ʻe niʻihi, ʻe lava ke tokoniʻi ʻa e ngāue ki he ngaahi ongó ʻaki haʻatau kai ha meʻakai ʻe niʻihi ʻoku ui ko e "kai fakafiemālie." ʻE lava ke fakatupu ʻe he meʻa ni ʻofa ke kai ʻo lahi ange ʻi he meʻa ʻoku nau angamaheni ki ai ʻi he taimi ʻoku nau ongoʻi mafasia pe lomekina ai.

ʻOku mahuʻinga ke fakatokangaʻi ʻe lava ke kehekehe lahi ʻa e ʻulungaanga kai ʻo e ʻofa mei he tokotaha ki he tokotaha pea ʻoku lahi e ngaahi meʻa.